I wanted to clarify. Hawaii does have no fault divorce but you have to choose between 4 options when you file. Only 1 spouse has to agree. Reading through your posts, your WAS is probably receiving 'advice' from other military wives. Hence the retirement talk
M: 43 H: 40 M: 18y S17,D13 D12 IC 11/2014 BD 4/16/15 H home 6/25/15 OW2 EA 6/26/15 MC started 7/22/15 Baby stepping....