I wanted to clarify. Hawaii does have no fault divorce but you have to choose between 4 options when you file. Only 1 spouse has to agree. Reading through your posts, your WAS is probably receiving 'advice' from other military wives. Hence the retirement talk


M: 43 H: 40 M: 18y
S17,D13 D12
IC 11/2014
BD 4/16/15
H home 6/25/15
OW2 EA 6/26/15
MC started 7/22/15
Baby stepping....