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rd500 #2573773 05/31/15 01:58 PM
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RD I love what Toots said about why W left. I have ordered my I Ageee a with Toots shirt, it should be shipping tomorrow. Wishing you a lovely day.



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Hi RD,

Hope you had a lovely weekend, have a nice week.

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Hi Pink. We have a bank holiday here in Ireland so a bit of window cleaning g and washing to catch up on. Just woke kids up with bacon sandwichs and a mug of tea

Have a good day

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Originally Posted By: rd500
Just woke kids up with bacon sandwichs and a mug of tea
That sounds great. Can I have one? Have a lovely day off.



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Hi Sunnyb , bacon gone , now just doing chicken nuggets !!!!

Take care. Rd

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My boys love bacon too. During school vacations they have a big branch on weekend. But to say the truth, I would like if we were designed to eat once a month or at least once a week.

I do not like cooking. I think it is a waste of time. Cooking for a long time, then it's gone in 10min and then the whole cleaning. It's absurd. And my kids are always hungry.

It's a bit of a problem, because I eat a lot less and don't feel hungry all the time. The hard part is that I am always the one to cook because everyone says that the food I prepare is good.

I notice you enjoy this whole cooking stuff.

Did some big cleaning this weekend, but I can't win on that, there is always something else in my to do list. I also need to get all H stuff into some boxes and ask him to get it out of the house.

Holiday sounds good, I wish we have one every week. In Brasil we have a lot of them, everything is a reason to stop working.

Have a fun day RD, hope the kids enjoy the work.

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Pink, you make me laugh. Cooking for three teenage boys must be a full time job. Only one of my three is a boy and it's hard to keep up!



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Yeah Sunny, It's like cooking for Dinosaurs, their stomach have some kind of mysterious black hole that the food just disappear. I have a 15 year old that has football training every day. It's a torture to keep up the protein intake. Not mentioning the price at the supermarket.

But I feel that Rd seems to manage that with grace, the one I do not have much.

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Hi ladies. I handle it without grace for sure My D11 eats more than toe others put together !!! She is super slim and would eat more than me or her biggest brother who is 6'2 and weighs 16 stone !!!! S16 is also super slim snd eats all day. D14 doesn't eat much. Dances 3 times a week and struggles to stay at her weight.

I don't mind the cleaning and cooking it's keeping the washing under control ,,, the washing machine actually broke on Wednesday and I had to buy a new one
It seems like all four of them change outfits 5 times a day !!!

EXW text this morning to ask if she could visit. When she got here she seemed very upset and started a conversation about how we were both to blame for where we are I just validated and W said she had made a lot of mistakes last year and regretted them. I told her last year was last year and I didn't give it time or thought. She hugged me and I told her was important to me and we would be happy again one day Then EXW told me she had stolen money from work as she couldn't survive !!!! This completely stunned me as this is so out of character it's unreal. I told EXW that she should not be doing it but almost as importantly she shouldn't be telling anyone

She started crying again and said she couldn't believe she had some it and was ashamed I told her that she would come to me if things got that desperate Maybe I'm being to nice but what am I supposed to do ??

Just posting my thoughts. Take care all. Rd

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Gosh RD, that's pretty desperate isn't it? She could lose her job of course if it's discovered. I don't know what to suggest, other than is she accessing any support & benefits available to her?? It's funny that she comes & tells you this, but declines support when you offer.

At least she trusts you enough to confide in you...((((rd))))


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