Also, what is experience with alimony? We were at counselor today, which has always been forum to discuss kids. But today she expressed dissatisfaction with alimony she got from courts; divorce is not final. It totally threw me off, as we had never talked about that with counselor. I asked, surprised, if she was trying to trade money for time with kids?? She said no but it's definitely the feeling I got from it. Divorce is just the worst institution.


Me44 WAW44
T22 M13
S10 S6
BD Aug 2014
PA Dec 2014;OM is divorcing,one D4, one S due Feb 2015 with Stbx wife
OM moves in with WAW Jan 2015
WAW file divorce Mar 2015
50/50 custody settled July 2015