“Hope is important because it can make the present moment less difficult to bear. If we believe that tomorrow will be better, we can bear a hardship today.”

That is where expectations are formed. I believe/expect tomorrow will be better. Than when it's not, I get disappointed. There CAN be a difference, but it's razor thin, IMO.

As far as someone's feelings - I'm up front with people. I let them know I'm not ready to be in a relationship, but enjoy time getting to know new people and share common interests.

I'm not hooked or looking for fixes, but also not trying to be isolated working on me and not GAL.


M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23