H disappear on Friday and Saturday. The kids and I did not hear from him at all. The on Sunday this was the interaction:
10:19m - H - I wanted you to know that my dad has had two additional surgeries since Wednesday. (Sat/Sun) & is under observation to return to ICU.
10:34 - Me - Sorry to hear that H. It's always such nervous situation. Is he doing good, just post surgery observations or is there any complications? Is this the prostate issue? Are you in Hampton with your family? I will pray for God to hold your Dad and give him strength to get better. And also for you and your family, to give peace to endure this time. My mom had surgery yesterday, but besides being dizzy she is doing well. Her doctor said that her dizziness may be because the anesthesia, since she takes heart medications. Please, let me know if you need anything. It will be all alright. I am sorry it's happening. Thanks for letting me know, I really appreciate. Will all your mom later today.
11:12a - H - Some complications, but he should be OK. We will follow very closely in the next hours. I am glad your mom is OL. Btw, I am here in Colorado & leaving early am Monday for Minneapolis. I'll return Wednesday night.
11:33am - Thanks Hon, will keep your Dad in my prayers, very close to my heart. May this be all to make him stronger and healthier.
11:40am - H - Thanks. I pray for your mom every day.
1:38pm - H - My dad has some kind of leak in his urinary system. They will do another surgery tomorrow to repair.
3:53pm - Me - H I am sending prayers for him. I also did text my prayer group to pray for him and sent a message to my family to keep him in prayer there too. Are you alright?
4:04pm - H - Yeah. Thanks.
4:55pm - H - Cira, would it be OK to stop by the house, just for a few minutes?
8:56pm - Me - The kids were in a park and they are home now. I know it is late for you, but if you want to say Hi to them then it's OK.
8:58pm - H - Thanks. I am heading out from work very soon.
I know I should just get this as it is. H was feeling bad about his dad and decided to share with me. The hard part is to let go on all my questions. Why he does this? Why is him so needy if he is so happy in his new life? But I understand it's best to just let go on the questions and let him be, do whatever his crazy mind is doing.
I was not home when H stopped by. Kids said that he basically came in and said Hi, told them that he would be traveling, asked if they were alone and them said he need to leave because he needed to get ready for his trip.
I actually feel good I did not see him. I did not have the aggravation of H feeling sad and sorry for himself. I was kind with him, gave him some support, but was not there to hug and let him cry on my shoulder. I know how hard it is for him that his step dad is so sick now.
But let's be honesty, he fired me some time ago, so I am not suppose to be there for him all the time, if ever.
