Aloha Rys! Just caught up on your sitch. As to your last post, Hawaii is not a true no fault state for divorce. You have to state the grounds of divorce & provide evidence or testimony to the court. It could be she's trying to find evidence of wrong doing or something to use in the courts. Just a thought. Have you sought L advice? You need to protect yourself & your future. It's not about spite or anything, just CYA.

Take care & keep moving forward

Last edited by Tweets; 06/01/15 03:50 PM.
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