Thanks for the feedback, T0!

Originally Posted By: T0324
Back to square one.

Really? That seems a little deterministic. If STBX is still in a fog, we are giving her a ton of credit, like she has a process akin to our DB and is keeping wayward tally marks or something.

She might have gotten her emotional tank filled a bit this morning but that shouldn't last too long. I think I just need to regroup, continue to enforce the new boundaries, GAL, consciously detach, and ensure I am better prepared to handle my next physical interaction with STBX on Thursday evening. Easier said than done, I know. Fortunately, I know you guys will assist me along the way!


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15