Old dog seeks new trick 14

[Old Dog]

Hi SunnyB. Thank you that's very thoughtful of you.

RAI. I know what you're saying and you're right. I don't want the person who can act like this and treat me this way. I do want my old wife back. The one I could talk to and discuss things with. The one who said we should never go to bed with things left unsaid. I know I was always the one who would leave things unsaid, I like to think I'd be better at that now. I know I could do a much better job at being a husband now. It hurts not to be given the chance.

I've no idea if they are happy. Judging by the cards she got on her birthday/valentine's day, he is. For a couple of months after bomb day, she would sit by herself deep in thought but then I think she got a grip and started her own GAL strategy which now includes om. So I don't actually think she is unhappy.

There are other pressures now such as losing her job, our tenants moving out so we have to sell our house and looking after the kids single handed. There's not much different here though as I've been working away from home for three years and she's got used to it. And this, in my opinion is one of the major factors in this and why I don't think she will consider reconciliation.

So, what can I do? I can work being the best I can be. And that's a long road.

I'll pop over to your thread shortly RAI. I'm stealing a little work time now.