I'm not at all concerned with my behavior. I can control myself (at least I think). I am more concerned about doing what is right for the kids, and if I should present her the opportunity to celebrate S's birthday dinner (even though it is my day) or if I should have the birthday party at all.
I know the party will be tough. Mixed friends and family. I am sure it will be tough, but the kids are already talking about it.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015