I'm glad you are back my friend. The trick for you will be to stay here. It important to sustain the effort, but definitely give yourself some lenience.

Try to remember that forgiving her, is a gift you give to yourself not to her. Don't forgive her b/c she wants you too. Forgive her b/c it is what you should do to get yourself happy.

Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015