But the urge to just write something is so strong. It's quite likely I will never see them again. They live the other side of the country, don't travel anywhere (never have done) and ww has left me behind whenever she takes the kids now. I've just wished FIL a happy birthday that's all.
RAI I'm glad to hear of your own detachment.
The jealousy thing. I'm not jealous of who he is. You're right, what man of integrity moves in on another's wife. She will have given him the 'all clear' but he's still a scumbag. I am jealous of the fact that he now has full access to my wife. That is still hard to bear.
Yes, where is that article by MWD? I struggle with what to tell them every time. So far, I haven't said anything.
Thanks for posting. Today is the anniversary of bomb day and so far I'm holding up.
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner