Hi Sunnyb. I've been reading your thread and while I fully appreciate that you see your H and are there for the interactions , I would point out that you don't know what he's thinking. I'm not trying to offer hope but at the same time your H could be in an internal struggle. I presume he's not a psychotic type of person and has feelings
I've read a lot in here of how people had completrly now read their WAS actuons or words and the WAS had huge internal struggles
Just to revert to my own sitch , my EXW is completely stunned by my apparent detachment I never call , never text and never ask for help with anything. Before she left I would have been a bit co dependant and talked to her 5 or 6'times a day on the phone , looked after her more like a daughter than a wife with acts of service ( I know it was wrong now ) my point is she was treated like a queen when she was here and now she's gone I'm certain she thinks I'm not interested in an R As of a few weeks ago she would have been wrong
I'm just saying it can be cry difficult to KNOW what the WAS is thinking