ST. LOUIS????? YOU'RE MOVING TO ST. LOUIS????? WHY THE HECK WOULD YOU WANT TO DO THAT?????
Seriously, if you need advice on where to look, let me know.
As far as the sitch, it's the same old concept: Patience, Baby Steps, More Patience, Validation, Even More Patience. It takes time but you ARE piecing and that's the important thing. Unlike many folks here, you're headed in the right direction and that's comforting to know.