Girl. Keep doing all those things, follow sandi's rules to a T. You are now in LRT I believe.

As for this....
I am becoming bitter and resentful, not because he wants a divorce, but because the way he has/is handling it. For me, I need to work thru this because I see the future (my mom) as a bitter ex-wife and it isn't pretty.

I believe you won't be that person bc you recognized it already! You are already heightened to look for that condition.


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015