Jedi - Ive found it extremely therapeutic for me to post as much on other people's threads as I do on my own. There are only so many developments in a LRT relationship, so there's never much to update on me. But to give advice to others helps me re-focus the things I want to do for myself. It also allows me to help and give support to others. We're all in this together! No clue if my advice is ever any good, but I find it's always helpful to know that people are in my corner and HEARING me talk (on my thread). It's also good to get other people's perspective even if I wind up not agreeing with it.
Wishing you the best as you prepare to really go dark.
