You're welcome! I know, it is counter-intuitive, isn't it? But I think it's so important you give it your best shot if you want a chance at saving your M.
I feel the same way with my W. But trying to hang on made things worse. I felt I HAD to do a 180.
Hang in there and I'll say another prayer for you in a few minutes.
C'mon....you got this.
*Hugs*
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15