Toots & GH,
Thanks so much for your feedback. I would be lost at sea without everyone checking in and offering such valuable advice!

Journaling;
The kids and I had such an amazing day! The children's museum was so much fun. D4 and S1 loved every minute of it. I did too and we'll definitely go back.

STBX didn't text or call until just after 8pm. She spoke with D4 on speakerphone for a minute or so. I did very little talking. I only acted as a translator and I answered a few questions when STBX asked what we did today. We said our goodbyes a few moments later.

Obviously, the conversations with STBX are limited now. I'd be lying if I said I didn't miss the small talk calls we used to have a week ago. It's tough not having one of your best friends to talk to. However, I don't miss the worrying and anxiety that comes with STBX's intermittent phone calls and TMs. Also, I can feel that the limited interaction is helping me to detach.

Anyway, a wonderful day and a great weekend with the kids. After tonight, I have three nights to myself. Nothing set in stone yet, but I should have some GAL plans each night.


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15