I read other threads and can clearly see they are being played. I just don't see it with mine until I read another thread. I could relate to her. I know he is cake eating because I have always allowed it.
Yes, you're being played.
He might not realise he's doing it, and you might not realise you're allowing it, but you are absolutely being played.
Originally Posted By: DFE
Do I just go no contact except for the kids? If he continues to be angry at me he doesn't feel bad. It's when I am nice and we are on good terms that he regrets what he has done. I do want him to regret it. It will help me heal.
I really don't know, DFE. I think a period of no contact might give you some perspective. You are divorced and it's your right.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
