Good Morning everyone, I have decided to check in with everyone and update you all on my sitch. As far as me and W being Separated nothing has changed. I have officially settled into my new apartment and things are going good. I do miss my dogs very much but I understand that this is part of the process. I have had very little interactions with W since her return from her " " stress relieving trip with her mom "OM" she is not aware her brother contacted me while she was supposed to be visiting her mom. But i just let that go as another reason W is no longer the person i was in love with. Not a single thread of truth comes from her lips anymore and i am ok with that these days, a mutual friend also informed me that her mother came to visit for mother’s day and she introduced her to OM and from what i was told they all got along great, I told my friend that i no longer wanted to hear about W or OM no matter what it concerns. this action helped me solidified my feelings as far as legal separation and beginning to date again, after all it has been 9 months now since Affair was discovered, and i honestly don't see things changing for the better anymore as far as Me and W go, and i am ok with that, the most important things about this entire sitch is that i have become a better person and man and to be honest that is what matters. Again this week she tried to convince me that she needed help paying for her new apartment. Inside i just laughed because i know that she is living with OM but still trying to keep up the image that she is living on her own. Little does she know that i went to the post office on Thursday to find out why my mail has not been forwarded to my new address and when they came back they gave me an address that was not mine but for W. and it was his place. i guess i just get a little confused why she still feels she needs to lie when the truth is so evident and to be honest, i am now ok with the outcome that i have been left with. in fact i am better than ok, I’m excited for my future. Anyhow i digress.
For the past month i have decided to start talking and dating just for some company and i have really enjoyed myself kind of scary, but at the same time talk about a boost in confidence. Well this Saturday i get a text from my brother saying he was sorry his missed my phone call, i stated i had not called him and that i was at work, he said yeah i know i missed a call from your work. This seemed super weird to me because i had not called him. So i asked W i she had called my brother and she said no. but something just didn’t seem right why would a hospital that my brother has never visited call him. So i asked a friend of mine that lives in Texas and she stated that yeah she had received a phone call from the hospital me and W work at, and that a female asked for a random name and when she told the female it was the wrong number said person began to ask questions like, have you been to the hospital lately, are you civilian, military, dependent ETC. My friend said it seemed really weird so she hung up. Now this happened to 7 people on my phone contact list and three have never been to my hospital and live out of state. And one of them was my sister and she said it sounded like my W. Now here is my question what is she hoping to achieve by getting ahold of my phone records and calling the numbers i have texted or called. I am confused why she would do this, she has made her choice and she is still living with OM why is she trying to gather information about me! Especially since i have left her alone completely and have actually began to move on and look forward to what this life holds for me! Any idea's from the ladies out there. I feel like she is fishing for evidence but i don’t know why it’s not like i am going to contest anything in the D! Other than that life has really been good, i have started training for a marathon in December. And i take a trip to Greenland in August super stoked about that. I hope that everyone is doing well and things are looking up for everyone the way they have for me!
