Thanks for finding and sharing this Zues. I watched part 1 today and this makes a lot of sense. I wish I can take a mulligan on parts of my M (I've learned so much).
It all makes sense, but I still have a cannot give up the expectation to be faithful when I thought it was a mutual expectation - and not even worth talking about - it was just understood. How do you think that fits in?
I understand giving up expectations for things to be a certain way and our S to do certain things, but what about when that expectation is one of our core values?
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015