Thanks for finding and sharing this Zues. I watched part 1 today and this makes a lot of sense. I wish I can take a mulligan on parts of my M (I've learned so much).

It all makes sense, but I still have a cannot give up the expectation to be faithful when I thought it was a mutual expectation - and not even worth talking about - it was just understood. How do you think that fits in?

I understand giving up expectations for things to be a certain way and our S to do certain things, but what about when that expectation is one of our core values?


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015