Hi Lisa,

Yes, it takes time, and there is no exact time. It is different for all of us. I think you're right, the forgiveness will eventually come naturally.

You're very welcome! Try to think good thoughts and eventually I believe the angry, hateful feelings will be less frequent and pass for you.

You can do this!

Hugs, Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15