Yes, I follow your thread although I don't post much. You seem to have a lot of people at your back so I don't want to clutter your thread.
Funny thing is this, I think I get how this is supposed to work. But my problem is that what I read here is when there is an active A on the go its to pull back and be dim(or dark). So I do that and it makes the WW reactions much worse. If I lighten up she responds positively and wants to engage. But is that me being friend zoned or should I keep on that track?
You see, PMA is ok. I GAL. Fitter now than ever. Spend A LOT of time with S9 (something to this day she maintains I didn't do and resents me for that. It's not true but hey). So what to do? DR says do something different but on here they say with a WW the rules are not applicable. Yet I think in my case they very well could be.
So I'm confused. I know we all are and need to find that solution. When I read sandi2's threads on the WW that's my W. To a tee. I try to follow her advice when I read it but alas, no movement.
I only have so much patience. I don't want a D. I want my family but I feel stuck. Although I'm getting on with life how do you move forward in this situation? It just doesn't feel like a life. Know what I mean?
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
