Thanks Mozza, I appreciate your openness. And I understand the cultural differences. I'm just struggling to clarify what I believe around all that right now. There's a guy who is pursuing me rather aggressively, and he knows I'm not D. And although it's flattering, I don't see anything long term going on. So that leaves me with sorting out exactly what is it about him that I'm rejecting and why? It's a little harder than I thought it was going to be because I really want to understand myself here. Am I rejecting him because he's ok with dating a M woman? I'd like to say yes but it's not true. Am I rejecting him because I'm not "healed" yet? Because he's too short? Not smart enough? Not refined enough? I really want to know and I really want to have the courage to admit whatever reason I come up with. And if I pass him by, will anyone else ever want me again? Good grief, this is complicated Mozza. But you make it look simple. What am I missing?
