Well at least you had man time with S. That's worth a lot and he'll appreciate that in the future. Yeah, your W is missing. When she returns, you've got to act like you don't care - that'll prove a point to her. Especially if S lays it on thick about what a good time you've had.
NDY,
It's good that you are posting as much as possible. I really agree with Huddy's advice above. Good stuff!
Tomorrow is my 14th Wedding Anniversary, I have only seen my WAW one time in the 7 months since she walked out and filed for D--in court in Feb and she acted like I didn't exist. Once I truly stopped persuing her, GAL and detached emotionally, I started feeling much better. Did you catch her text to me last week and my "team text" reply? I think it's on page 5 of my current thread. You may want to read it. She finally seems to be re-thinking thngs -- maybe. But, it's a small baby step.
Hang in there thru these tough times, buddy. I have faith in you that you'll do the right things. Keep a PMA, please.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
