I agree. I think the WAS needs some level of resentment to justify their actions (ie - they are the bad guy, not me). For the first few months, I got nothing but icy cold words and looks that could kill.
Now it's almost the opposite. I was peaceful and kind despite the attitude that I was receiving. Now I'm withdrawn and typically angry despite her kind demeanor. I've grown to resent it. I figure it's because I am still holding on to those "debts".
Me 23, Her 21 1S 2 M <1yr, T 7 WAW: She moved out 11/15/2014 She started D process 1/29/15
