My thought is that she may need to do those things on her own, LT. While I think she did enjoy them, I would think that you would do better being you. i.e. do the things you do, and if it feels right, invite her along.

My concern would be that you would be circumventing the process of her own growth by trying to "help" too much. That would be a fine line, no?

I think Job is right - it's early days for her to figure out how to come through and out. Trying to help too much may prevent that from occurring.

My concern though. You're closer to the situation although I would think just by you asking, you intuitively know that caution is needed. smile


AJ


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