Hi Zues, thanks for sharing the ...clips. I watched 1 & 2 today. He's an engaging speaker for sure, and I found the first video on desires and expectations interesting. He does illustrate how the feelings of love can drain away when you have a M that is based on what I would call deals and transactions...certainly some food for thought there. Scorecard also popped into my mind with the whole 'owing' eachother theme.

I'm not a believer and so I got less out of the second video. Although some of the stuff about 'parent' dynamics within the M were interesting. I was concerned about some of the content as he seemed to almost be saying - put your own needs aside - and make your life all about loving your partner, understanding their desires and so on. I haven't read ..., but isn't that what nice guys do, and then get themselves into some difficulties?

I may re-watch the first one and watch some more of his other clips too. Thanks for the recommendation! T :-)

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus