NDY,

I have shared your fantasy and had a few others I shouldn't share...lol

My WW is very similar. They let their guard down and have feelings for a brief moment then this scares them so they run back behind the wall.

I no longer look for signs as they always lead me to the wrong place. Going nowhere is always better than backwards.

I thought Cadets analogy of a tornado was spot on. While you can't stop them from doing destruction, you don't have to get caught up in it.

Set some clear boundaries, small goals, and have no expectations.

You got this!

Me42 W40 S12 D8
M:15yrs
BD 3/27/15
D filed 4/27/15