I understand, it's the hardest part to let go. Think of it this way. If she is the love of your life, she will be there down the road. And maybe this was all needed to make things right, like pigpen said. If you believe in a higher power, he has a plan in mind, and maybe thus was it. Now that doesn't mean it will work out, but it may mean that we needed this for ourselves. And our spouses needed it for them. In the end we can either be great or skate by, I still have so far to go, but I know what I want. Hopefully we can all see the light one day and realize that everything happened to make our lives better.
