Yeah, I agree with you. It just takes more patients than most people have. And trying to keep the PMA, throughout the process. Changing ourselves for the better is good. The first time we got back together I did it all for her. I thought I was doing it for me, but really I was still just as selfish and arrogant as before. Staying away from the R talk, is the way to go. It's hard and we want to say anything we can. It's just not going to work.
I still get a empty out in my stomach, and it's hard. But I'm trying to stay positive.
