I get a sense that you and I feel similar about our WS. I am at the point where I am finally ready to move on. I think the ultimatum was more for me than for WW, I don't think there is a snowball's chance in h-e-double-hockey-sticks of her actually stepping up and meeting my conditions. Even if she did, I would say no reconciliation. It was just liberating for me to know that I gave her every opportunity. Hand it to her, WW never misses an opportunity to miss and opportunity. I don't think she is a very good person, to boot.
For the first time on this site, I am saying unequivocally that I am done. I don't even feel too bad about it. It is sad, but I am ok with it. I know my worth, and I am worth way more.
Originally Posted By: Raliced
Can you be more specific about the lawyer's advice conflicting with DB?
Sandi (and others) suggested that I cut her phone off and make he feel consequence of her actions. My L is suggesting that if I have more concerns about her ability to parent, I will need real-time evidence that she is a pretty absent mother. Her texting record is very supportive of this.
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Your finances - a few threads back you said you were needing to educate yourself about the household finances, and now you mention your MIL has your credit card. I'm somewhat glad to hear that you know how much is in savings, but please reassure me you have a full handle on the household expenses (how much is being spent, where the funds are coming from, what the bills actually are, whose name is on what etc.
Yes, I am developing a better handle on things. I am also discussing with my L. i can't elaborate now, because I got paged. More to come...
