Not seeing her much today, and this is good. I'm sure she was with the OW this morning, and now she's at an open house, later plans to go to a horse farm or something. At least she's not trying to throw me "crumbs" between all her fabulous plans today.
I realized something... she does have all these plans, is meeting all these new people through the OW. She doesn't have a life of her own, though. If the OW were suddenly out of the picture, my W would have none of this. Should the OW dump her, she will be floundering. Kind of sad.
This was the text exchange I saw last night: "W: (Dif) is adamant that I can't unilaterally walk out on our commitment, so she says I'm having an affair." "OW: People walk out on commitments all the time. See the pain beneath her anger, and you be firm that it's over without anger. I'm sorry. I know you're miserable, love!" Love, she calls her! Lord have mercy. I was actually glad to see those texts, because it just confirms that whatever comes out of W's mouth these days is actually coming from the OW. She doesn't have her own mind at the moment. It's so sad.
She just called me and asked me to bring something to her at the open house. I'm not in the mood.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
