So I've really been detaching, and granted it has only been a couple of days I think it is already bothering her. She had a ton of questions about what me and my D2 were doing and I could tell it was bothering her that we were out doing things without her on Friday and Saturday night. She was almost in tears when we left Saturday night
When my W told me she filed for D I told her I didn't want her calling or texting me, unless it was in regards to our D2. Around the house I have been happy and cordial but I haven't initiated any convo. When she talks I will respond but make it as short as possible. She approached me yesterday in tears and asked if I would rather her not talk to me at all because she wanted to do what I was asking; I said it's fine if she has something to say around the house I just didn't really see what there was to talk about in texts or phone calls and she just emphasized she just wanted to make sure she was doing what I was asking (that is a first since this whole ordeal started)
Lastly, a week or so ago she said how uncomfortable she is going to church with me because she has to pretend like everything is OK. I told her yesterday I was going to take D2 to church and she asked if it was just us 2 and I said yeah. Well she asked if she could come this morning and I just said yeah if she wants to that is fine. I guess it doesn't make her that uncomfortable anymore...
Me: 32 Her: 29 M: 5 T: 11 D2 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me) W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15 Papers served 6-3-15 Temporary Order 7-15-15 W Moved out 7-17-15