Hi Defacto, I'm glad things seemed to go well with your message to W last night and her subsequent call.

I think it's all about balance - at one end of the spectrum we have W calling/texting 10+ times a day, which could be really intrusive. At the other end we have an H being a real @ss about access to the kids when they are with him. Neither of those is great for anyone, but there's healthy middle ground and I think the plan of a call a day if asked for is a good one.

As for anything further than that - like this morning. Well IMHO it's fine, and your minimal response was probably all that was needed. If you hadn't responded at all, the messages may have kept on coming...

Nice that D4 is so excited - bless her! Hope you have a great time at the museum. grin

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