I went to my son's band banquet tonight and loved it, but I found out that he didn't show up to his captains tryout because he was upset that day and left school. It was the day after his dad said he was "DONE". Whatever, I'm so mad right now.
My husband sent some email today talking about how he isn't divorcing me and he will always love me but we are split up (although not legally). He tried to tell my daughter we wont divorce because I might need the extra health insurance in future. What a crock. He just wants control of OLD FAITHFUL-ME.
This mama bear is getting pissed.
This is so tough. My girls are (luckily?) little enough to really not have strong opinions on this. They can't understand what's happening, really. I can't imagine how difficult it is to go through this with children that are old and strong enough to really voice their opinions in actions like that.
I'll echo wait Eirinn just wrote. The man you loved is not your H anymore, so keep working on you. Keep detaching. Keep finding new ways to stay busy and move forward with your life. It's not easy, but it's the only choice!
