Teacher needs to become the pupil

[Elly4]

Oh my gosh, Teach, do I feel an echo right now. My H only has a talk with my every other month or so about our R but whenever he does it is just like what you are saying. My favorite was when he told me that I was his perfect counterpart, but maybe he needed a different counterpart to help him grow to be happy. Talk about confusing! I was getting ticked off at that stage too so I looked at him and said that maybe he needed to find himself first.

Just keep posting on here. The confusing messages can make you be on the most insane roller coaster ever! I just keep reminding myself to believe nothing that he says. I just keep my PMA and next door neighbor friendly to him, if that makes sense.

What everyone else has said is so true. Use this time to find out who you are and what you want to do with YOUR life. If he wants to rejoin, great, but either way, you are going to be awesome!

{{{hugs}}}
E

ps. You might want to add a signature to your profile so that people can be reminded of your sitch at a glance.