Jim: I guess for a while now I've been open to the idea of getting to know a guy if someone were to cross my path and I was interested. I've not really put myself in situations where that kind of thing is happening much though. So I guess for me the next step would be signing up to an online dating site and seeing what unfolds. That being said, I did have a look at OKC the other day...and really struggled with the idea of connecting up with someone who puts up a dodgy photo and chooses a stoopid namesake. I may just have to get over myself though...
Lisa: Thanks for your kind words. Yeah hard to know if things are resolved or not. No more or less than anyone else's situation here I guess (though decidedly more dark than most). H has told me he's been on some dates and so my mind could go there if I let it. I think I've just accepted that he's gotta do what he's gotta do in order to find his way out of this. Maybe he'll come knocking on my door when he does, in which case I'll just have to see where my heart/head is at at that time.
Treated myself to a spot of shopping and a spa pedi yesterday (only the second time I've ever done that!) Another 30km walk today + yoga. It's been nice seeing a few familiar faces on the walks (Meetup group). Plan to catch up with a girl I met at another Meetup event during the week.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014