I think my xh spools himself with these contacts . . . .he pops out and pops back into his burrow.
Life is not quite what he thought it would be after all this time, but he still hasn't a clue how to put it right. He is trying being 'nice' to me. It is actually OK, better than spewing. But still not really sorting himself out. It is a shame, but it isn't really impacting on my life - I deal with it here, and get on with my life . No-one else even begins to understand this stuff . . .