Update- Thursday, he had an IC appointment. He came back and told me all about it. He said he told the shrink he wants to patch things up with me (where did this come from?). He then started showing me everything in his phone- texts, contacts, call log.
Saturday, he comes home early from work and took me and the kids to dinner and frozen yogurt. He says he wants to work on our M. Then he rents DVDs and goes in our room (currently just my room) and says let's watch these. It caught me off guard. I don't know if I've mentioned it but he hasn't slept in our room for a couple of weeks now. After watching, he went back to his bed, the couch.
Not sure what's happening but I told him I kind of don't know what to make of these.