Hi jim0987 - Just stopping by to say that I'm still here and still following your sitch closely.
Of course, I can't approve of the recent pursuing My thoughts on the pursuing at the moment is that they are perceived by the WAS as the continuation of the disagreements in the couple. As much as our words may say otherwise, our WW might be telling us that we were very wrong and our insistence to save the M is seen as a rebuttal, no matter how much we repeat "I can change". Letting go might be a way to let them win the argument. That's why it's so important to let go.
Good luck with the certification.
M39 D6 D3 (at S) S 2014-09 D 2016-09
"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
My thoughts on the pursuing at the moment is that they are perceived by the WAS as the continuation of the disagreements in the couple. As much as our words may say otherwise, our WW might be telling us that we were very wrong and our insistence to save the M is seen as a rebuttal, no matter how much we repeat "I can change". Letting go might be a way to let them win the argument. That's why it's so important to let go.