Tulo, don't beat yourself up about it. I would find it very difficult to say no to my STBX.

Part of me would feel hopeful that he was still attracted to me, which would be a very dangerous road to follow. I am working with my IC on boundaries when I get back to the UK.

Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18
EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13
Move to work abroad Sept 14
re establish contact with OW while away
D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15