Thanks everyone for the quick responses as I freaked out.
Wonka, I won't hold this over her head. I just want my wife and I to be able to work through what is going to be a very long process without OM in the way.
I'm going to give her space now. She's going out with some friends and an old college professor. I know this is true, and none of them know, so it will hopefully just be some good space between us and give her head some time to clear.
Still nervous on whether I can handle this right. Time will tell, and we'll see how committed she is to staying away from OM. Unfortunately they still work together. That obstacle may still prove insurmountable.
