You are more than welcome! It has to be tough but you CAN do this.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
My big brother just gave me more sage advice. stop being afraid and trying to a 'square peg in a round hole". he suspects that my fear of losing my GF and not really being ok in my own skin before getting into a Rel, caused GF to see qualities she did not want. When I stop carrying around the fear and learn to be to with myself, things will work much better.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
Post nup complete and on its way to the court. The lawyers tell us we'll e officially divorced in 4 to 6 weks. Strangely my Ex and I are getting along better than in the past 10 years. We promised to keep this good spirit between us now. I am greatful.
My GF came back to me in Late June but decided to end it again by Labor day. That has been painful. I still need to grow and learn.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14