Yes, he is being very selfish. Yes, the irony of all of this is that he was previously engaged prior to me and the engagement ended because she was cheating on him. I now realize that H likely never dealt with the pain of his past. So the thought that he felt he was making me happy in M likely made him fear abandonment again. He is acting out in all sorts of ways and definitely in crisis.
I guess this is the "it will get worse before it gets better stage"?! Oy!
Last edited by BW05; 05/30/1510:37 PM.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
