Hi Painter,

"Could it be that H wants you to take responsibility for separating? That he is trying to get reaction out of you?"

Not sure what you mean. Like an exit affair? Can you clarify?

I have done that too. I have told H multiple times he is free to go, but he says he is not sure. Right now I refuse to make that decision. He will be the one to end our M, not me. I am not there yet.

Last edited by BW05; 05/30/15 09:50 PM.

Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015