This morning I was supposed to take W to the car dealership to get her car serviced. Before we left, we "talked". I let her know that I have an appointment on Tuesday with an attorney to begin the process and figure out my rights. She asked "you're going to an attorney?" I responded "yes" and added that I can't continue to accept OM with no end in sight. I have to look out for me and D2. I told her I wished she would leave the house and that she emotionally left months ago, so why not physically leave.
W decided she wanted to take the car herself and would just sit and wait for it.
Fast forward 5 hours later and I get a text. "It's over. I ended it."
I didn't respond to the text. About 15 minutes later, she cane home. Told me she ended it, and that she did because she didn't want me to go to an attorney on Tuesday.
I told her "I'm sure that was difficult for you to do. It's probably the healthiest choice." She wanted to "talk", but I retold her it wasn't a good time, and she should take some time to digest everything from today.
I'm in a Home Depot parking lot right now typing this.
How do I react? What do I say (if anything)? Any advice on this would be appreciated more than you know.
I need to get this right. I know that a door has been opened, and this is a big turn of events right now. I CAN'T screw this up.
