Hi Depress, I think you wanting him back so desperately may be preventing you from doing those very things that may bring him back. Those things things include him seeing you as a self-respecting person who won't be a plan B, who is setting clear boundaries and is prepared to move forward/on alone if needs be.
Hi Depress,
Wow, you are in such a tough situation. I completely agree with Toots' advice. You do not want to ever come across as "Plan B." You are not his safety net. But you CAN turn this around and it will take time.
I noticed that mahhhty really liked Toots' post, too. Both Toots and mahhhty, along with many others, give so much of themselves on this forum. I love them both!
I will dedicate a prayer to you after I post this.
I wish you well.
*Hugs*
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
