You're welcome! Yes, I think it's best that is not part of the text.
Do you have the Validation Cheat Sheet? Stick mostly to validating her feelings where appropriate.
I'm still not certain about the rest. Any vets out there today? Calling all vets for Defacto, please...
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15