I'm glad Claire replied and I know your last post was directed at her.
Question for you sir: Is this part of your proposed text:
"I think this adds some much needed structure for everyone."
Or was that a comment to us? If it is part of your draft text, I would remove that line completely. Sadly, Our WAS' don't care much about what we think now. Also, she feels you are "controlling" (my wife says I "smothered" her) and I feel that line, as well-meant as it is, could be interpreted by her as you trying to "control" the sitch. See what I mean? What do other's think?
If it was only meant for us, I'm sorry Defacto. I rambled on for nothing about that sentence.
Good luck!
Bob
Bob, Thanks for the perspective! Nope, that was included in the proposed text. You're right of course. I will remove it. Thanks!
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