Sad to say, but I feel she is telling you these things to try to hurt you. She wants to see if she is going to get a reaction out of you--trying to bait you into an argument. Don't fall for it!
I feel so bad for you, this has to be very difficult. Try to remember to work on detaching emotionally. I am not in the exact same sitch as you, but my W filed for D 7 months ago with no warning. Once I started GAL and began to work on emtionally detaching, I feel more positive about our sitch. I think my W is noticing.
Here's a verse I just came across yesterday. I'd like to share it with you:
“But the Lord stood at my side and gave me strength” (2 Timothy 4:17).
Please hang tough!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15