Hello Hope.

Sad to say, but I feel she is telling you these things to try to hurt you. She wants to see if she is going to get a reaction out of you--trying to bait you into an argument. Don't fall for it!

I feel so bad for you, this has to be very difficult. Try to remember to work on detaching emotionally. I am not in the exact same sitch as you, but my W filed for D 7 months ago with no warning. Once I started GAL and began to work on emtionally detaching, I feel more positive about our sitch. I think my W is noticing.

Here's a verse I just came across yesterday. I'd like to share it with you:

“But the Lord stood at my side and gave me strength” (2 Timothy 4:17).

Please hang tough!

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15